When your child is rude, ask this one question
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Published: October 2026
When your child is rude or their behaviour is challenging, try to see it as communication: it tells you something is going on underneath.
Clinical psychologist Dr Bettina Hohnen suggests taking a breath and asking yourself, “What’s going on for my child right now?” You can hold a boundary and still validate their feelings, then talk it through later.